Check out my article on Authentic Montessori in Colorado Montessori Association's November Newsletter- Colorado Montessori Association
Monday, December 2, 2013
Saturday, November 30, 2013
December- Parents' favorite month for discipline
In the last week of November the Elves on the Shelves have already come back as have Santa songs such as "Santa Claus is Coming to Town". This also brings for parents the easiest month for discipline.
The Elf on the Shelf, a sweet book which comes with a cute elf doll, has been quite the phenomenon for the past few years. After enjoying the story and naming the elf, parents place the elf in fun to find places throughout the house everyday. This shows how the elf moves around the house, gets into mischief, but most importantly spies on the little children and goes to tattle on them to Santa every night.
For more info- http://www.elfontheshelf.com/
The famous song- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtytbHrs5RY&noredirect=1 reminds children that during the night or day, Santa's watching! What a great way to encourage positive behavior! You are being watched, all day and all night.... and the amount and quality of presents you will receive on Christmas depends on you behavior! But don't worry this form of discipline is not from your parents, they're just here to remind you. This does make for easier "discipline" for them but is it best for children?
While the book and doll are very sweet, there is something I find quite disturbing about the whole thing. Parents use this as their means of discipline during the holidays. It's a nice break from having to be the "bad guys". All you have to do this point out to the children that their behavior determines the "gifts" they will receive and that they are being watched. This is very manipulative.
I see three things particularly wrong with this.
1. This is a complete misunderstanding of what discipline is. Maria Montessori saw discipline as in internal developmental process in which the child learns to control his impulses. She did not find rewards and punishments to be the way to achieve this. Discipline is a life long process and should not simply be the means to an end such as avoiding the tantrum in the store by threatening coal.
2. This is feeding children lies. While there is a beauty to the myth of Santa, why are we forcing children to believe this? This creates a lack of trust. It is very illogical. Why spend so much time making "Santa" real and no or little time on Christ who is actually real?! Children have a need for reality. Maria Montessori always emphasized children's need for reality.Anyone who has spent time with children will know that the line between reality and fiction is very blurry for young children (until about age 5-6).
3. Christmas is about Christ, the King of kings making himself man for our salvation. THE greatest gift of all. But we do not receive this gift because we "earned" it by being "good". A gift is receiving something even if we do not deserve it. It is something done out of love, not out of manipulation! A gift loses its meaning if it has to be earned. A true gift is free, with no strings attached, and with no expectation of anything in return.
Anyway, here are my thoughts. What is the real focus of Christmas? How do we make Christmas real for children? How do you celebrate Christmas with your children?
Edit- please note- I love St. Nicholas, he is a holy example of faith and generosity. I love teaching the children about him and loved when my dad would dress up like him and hand us out gifts. It is lovely to offer gift in remembrance of his life. This very different from Santa Claus (inspired by St. Nick) who is fictional.
Two other blog posts on the topic
http://nateandrachael.com/believe-or-not-to-believe-in-santa-claus/
http://jenhatmaker.com/blog/2011/11/29/the-christmas-conundrum
The Elf on the Shelf, a sweet book which comes with a cute elf doll, has been quite the phenomenon for the past few years. After enjoying the story and naming the elf, parents place the elf in fun to find places throughout the house everyday. This shows how the elf moves around the house, gets into mischief, but most importantly spies on the little children and goes to tattle on them to Santa every night.
For more info- http://www.elfontheshelf.com/
The famous song- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtytbHrs5RY&noredirect=1 reminds children that during the night or day, Santa's watching! What a great way to encourage positive behavior! You are being watched, all day and all night.... and the amount and quality of presents you will receive on Christmas depends on you behavior! But don't worry this form of discipline is not from your parents, they're just here to remind you. This does make for easier "discipline" for them but is it best for children?
While the book and doll are very sweet, there is something I find quite disturbing about the whole thing. Parents use this as their means of discipline during the holidays. It's a nice break from having to be the "bad guys". All you have to do this point out to the children that their behavior determines the "gifts" they will receive and that they are being watched. This is very manipulative.
I see three things particularly wrong with this.
1. This is a complete misunderstanding of what discipline is. Maria Montessori saw discipline as in internal developmental process in which the child learns to control his impulses. She did not find rewards and punishments to be the way to achieve this. Discipline is a life long process and should not simply be the means to an end such as avoiding the tantrum in the store by threatening coal.
2. This is feeding children lies. While there is a beauty to the myth of Santa, why are we forcing children to believe this? This creates a lack of trust. It is very illogical. Why spend so much time making "Santa" real and no or little time on Christ who is actually real?! Children have a need for reality. Maria Montessori always emphasized children's need for reality.Anyone who has spent time with children will know that the line between reality and fiction is very blurry for young children (until about age 5-6).
3. Christmas is about Christ, the King of kings making himself man for our salvation. THE greatest gift of all. But we do not receive this gift because we "earned" it by being "good". A gift is receiving something even if we do not deserve it. It is something done out of love, not out of manipulation! A gift loses its meaning if it has to be earned. A true gift is free, with no strings attached, and with no expectation of anything in return.
Anyway, here are my thoughts. What is the real focus of Christmas? How do we make Christmas real for children? How do you celebrate Christmas with your children?
Edit- please note- I love St. Nicholas, he is a holy example of faith and generosity. I love teaching the children about him and loved when my dad would dress up like him and hand us out gifts. It is lovely to offer gift in remembrance of his life. This very different from Santa Claus (inspired by St. Nick) who is fictional.
Two other blog posts on the topic
http://nateandrachael.com/believe-or-not-to-believe-in-santa-claus/
http://jenhatmaker.com/blog/2011/11/29/the-christmas-conundrum
Friday, November 8, 2013
Montessori Education and the Dyslexic Child Research Paper
Children
nowadays are facing many challenges. Some of these challenges are financial, or
due to broken families; others come from not having the chance to be in a
successful school or from being bullied. A large number of children also suffer
from learning disabilities. One of these disabilities is dyslexia. According to
Professor Sally Shaywitz, one in five American children suffers from dyslexia
(2003). Dyslexia is a complex learning disability that looks different for each
child. Luckily, a lot of research has been done on the subject in the last
decade, offering a variety of tools and options for teachers and parents. All
children face unique difficulties and it is the job of the teacher to support
them and lead them towards success. Based on current research and an in-depth
look at Montessori education, educators can see how children with dyslexia can
be supported within the Montessori classroom and led towards success.
Dyslexia
is often associated with reversing letters and numbers or seeing symbols
backwards, yet Shaywitz tells us that this is a common misconception (Shaywitz,
2003). Dyslexia is far more complex. In the video What Is Dyslexia?, Sandman-Hurley, defines
dyslexia as: “… caused by a phonological processing problem” (2013). This makes
manipulating language the biggest challenge and not, as often is misunderstood,
with seeing (Sandman-Hurley, 2013). This processing problem is seen in the way
a dyslexic brain funcitons. Through the use of MRIs, researchers were able to
take a look into the processes of the brain for a child with dyslexia versus a
child without it (Shaywitz, 2003). This showed that dyslexics tend to rely more
on their right hemisphere and frontal lobes than on their left hemisphere which
is incharge of language (Sandman-Hurley, 2013). This makes reading a longer and
more complicated process.
Dyslexia is a lifelong disability and is heriditary (Shaywitz,
2003). As research has grown and there is more awareness on what dyslexia is,
more and more people realize that this is the reason they struggled in school.
Often parents of children with dyslexia will discover their own disability as
they work to support their child (Shaywitz, 2003). Dyslexia is a disability
making the process of reading and writing more challenging but it is very
improtant to remember that it does not affect a person’s intelligence. The National
Institutes of Health conducted a study to illustrate how dyslexia is not
related to lower IQ scores (NIH News, 2011).
Children suffering from dyslexia struggle at keeping up with
their peers, since reading and writing is a far more complex process for them
(Sandman-Hurley, 2013). Yet each child will struggle in a unique way depending
on how severe the disability is (NCLD Editorial Team.
(n.d.). The NCLD Editorial Team explains: “Some with dyslexia can have trouble
with reading and spelling, while others struggle to write, or to tell left from
right. Some children show few signs of difficulty with early reading and
writing. But later on, they may have trouble with complex language skills, such
as grammar, reading comprehension and more in-depth writing.” ((NCLD Editorial Team. (n.d.). These
difficulties not only make learning challenging but can also have a negative
impact on a child’s self-esteem (Foss, 2013). Not only do educators need to find appropriate
strategies to support dyslexic children, they must also remember to focus on
the child’s strength (Shaywitz, 2003).
It
is important to diagnosis children early in order to begin intervention as soon
as possible. Early identification is crucial since a child’s brain is far more
flexible as a young age (Shaywitz, 2003). Too often identification does not
happen until third grade (Shaywitz, 2003). By then children have already
struggled and missed important concepts. The “wait and see” approach is not
beneficial to children (Bourne, 2011). Once dyslexia is suspected, it is vital
to being diagnosis and intervention. Ben Foss reminds us of the importance of a
child’s emotional and social development (Foss, 2013). For a child to be able
to be successful in learning with dyslexia, not only must there be accommodation
for learning but the child must also feel comfortable and safe. According to
Shaywitz, first grade is the most crucial time for reading, it is when a child
learns to decode, identify, and understand words (Shaywitz, 2013). There is a
great need for teachers of children even below first grade to be trained and
aware for the signs of dyslexia in order to intervene as soon as possible. Skotheim
proposes that children can be identified as early as age four or five
(Skotheim, 2009).
Gavin
Reid discusses the many aspects and options of diagnosing dyslexia (Reid,
2011). Reid suggests that parents or teachers who have suspicions that a child
is struggling must perform a full and formal assessment as soon as possible
(Reid, 2011). There are many options available for assessments. These can be
done through professionals, educators, or from resources from trusted
institutions such as the California Association of Licensed Education
Psychologists (Reid, 2011). For an assessment to be successful, it must be
based on the child’s curriculum and lead to concrete recommendations (Reid,
2011). Foss adds that children’s strengths should also be assessed (Foss,
2013). By focusing on the curriculum, having a plan, and honoring the child’s
strengths, parents and educators can begin to put into place strategies to
support dyslexia. There are now many options available. Many severely dyslexic
people have found ways to live with their disability and thrive. One of these
people is Ben Foss, the author of The
Dyslexia Empowerment Plan. In his book, he discusses the various tools he
uses such as speaking through a computer, using transcribing programs, and
editing (Foss, 2013).
Once
the diagnosis has happened and assessments have been administered, there are
many proven methods that can support dyslexic children. In the video What Is Dyslexia?, Sandman-Hurley points out the brain processes can be
changed by using: “… an intensive, multi-sensory intervention that breaks the
language down and teaches the reader to decode….” (Sandman-Hurley, 2013). This
allows for more work to happen in the left hemisphere of the brain and drives
for an improvement in reading. Books and online resources have found many ways
to offer effective interventions for dyslexic readers. Yet the Montessori
Method already offers a strong foundation for supporting dyslexic students
through its hands-on materials and philosophy.
In 1898, Maria Montessori began working with special needs
children and thus became one of the first special educators (McKenzie,
Zascavage, 2012). Through her observations and experiments, she created a new
method of education through a well-prepared environment with hands on material and
teachers trained to be observers (Standing, 1998). In 1906, she opened her
first school for all children. To this day the Montessori Method remains one of
the most effective methods of education for all children, whether with or without
disabilities.
Each
area in the Montessori classroom is specially prepared with clear and direct
aims, from Sensorial and the refinement of the senses, to Practical Life and
life skills, Math and a concrete experience of numbers and quantities, to
Cultural and experiences connecting to the world, and finally to Language. The
Montessori language curriculum offers hands-on manipulative materials that
follow a scaffolding sequence. This allows children to learn with their hands,
deconstruct, and reconstruct language, offering an ideal model for what Sandman-Hurley recommends (Sandman-Hurley, 2013).
In a primary Montessori classroom students as young as three
are first introduced to language through games such as “I, Spy”, rhyming, and
initial sound activities. This helps create a strong phonological awareness. Phonological
awareness is foundational towards reading and writing (Skotheim,
2009). Later on, through the sandpaper letters, not only are children learning
their letters through sounds visually but they are also through touch.
Richardson reminds us that the kinesthetic sense is the strongest for memory
(Richardson, 2004). This offers a highly multi-sensory approach to learning. It
is important to note that this stage can be difficult for dyslexic students as
they work to understand the relationship between the symbols of letters and
their sounds (Reid, 2011). This is an ideal time to pay extra attention to
students and identify their difficulties in order to offer accommodations as
early as possible.
Once
children have a strong phonological awareness and knowledge of sounds and
letters, they are introduced to the large movable alphabet that allows them to
deconstruct and build words. This offers yet another multi-sensory process
towards understanding language. Later on children also learn whole-word
strategies offering a “whole-language” approach towards teaching reading (Epstein,
2006). Epstein also reminds Montessori teachers to use a variety of strategies
in order to meet the needs of all children. Unlike others, she advocates for
offering the children the time to develop their reading skills at their own
pace without labeling a child who is not reading by age five as dyslexic
(Epstein, 2006). This reminds us to keep a balance between identifying issues
and following the child’s development.
Just
as children in a more traditional setting need to be identified, it is crucial for
identification to also happen within the Montessori classroom. While the
curriculum offers ideal tools to support dyslexic students, it is not enough. Teachers
must be aware of the many ways dyslexia can manifest and the many proven tools
available to best support dyslexic students. Skotheim offers simple checklists
and activities to assess children’s development within the Montessori classroom
(Skotheim, 2009). Reid also emphasizes the need for parent-teacher
collaboration (Reid, 2011). As parents help support their children at school
and outside of school they must have access and information about the progress
or challenges happening in the classroom.
As
awareness on dyslexia grows, it is imperative for teachers to be knowledgeable
and have a variety of strategies on hand in order to meet all students’ needs. In
his dissertation, Washburn found that very few teachers were properly trained
(Washburn, 2009). Teachers must become more knowledgeable about dyslexia and
child development in general in order to support students successfully. Maria
Montessori created her didactic materials through the observation of children
and trial and error. She was a scientist knowledgeable in development. With
this background, she was able to offer the children what they most needed. It
is our job as well, as teachers to observe, experiment, and believe in the
children’s development in order to meet their needs.
Recent
studies and research clearly illustrate the need to better understand dyslexia,
to identify students as early as possible, and to provide a multi-sensory
environment for dyslexic children. The Montessori environment is rich in
multi-sensory materials and follows a “whole-language” approach to reading,
offering dyslexic students a positive learning experience. Through the
Montessori Method, teachers are able to follow children individually and use
specific strategies to support them. It is crucial for Montessori teachers to
be trained to observe and support dyslexic students in order to provide the
appropriate strategies and support. Maria Montessori, yet again, was head of
her time and provided us with a rich and successful method to meet all
children’s needs.
Annotated Bibliography
Bourne,
L. (2011). Dealing with dyslexia. Montessori For Everyone. Retrieved from http://www.blog.montessoriforeveryone.com/dealing-with-dyslexia.html
Lori
Bourne discusses her personal experience with dyslexia as she discovered some
of her family members struggling with it. She touches on the overview of what
it is, what it looks like neurologically, the importance of early
intervention, and what can be done to support dyslexic children. She also
offers a wide range of resources and tools for educators and parents.
Epstein. A. (2006).
Montessori early childhood language: life-long literacy. Montessori.org.
retrieved
from http://www.montessori.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=142:montessori-early-childhood-language-life-long-literacy&catid=39:birth-6&Itemid=71
Ann
Epstein, once a speech pathologist, outlines the development of language from
verbal to visual and tactile. She outlines the Montessori way of teaching
language and its benefit to the child not only for school but for life.
Epstein emphasizes the benefit of the Montessori "whole-language"
approach to reading to meet the needs of all children.
Foss, B. (2013). The Dyslexia Empowerment Plan.
Ballantine Books. New York
Ben Foss encourages children and
parents to learn the facts on dyslexia, be empowered, and grow to their full
potential. He also provides helpful tools such as helpful resources,
diagraph, and checklists. Instead of overcoming dyslexia, Foss proposes,
integrating it into daily life.
McKenzie, G.K. Zascavage, V.S. (2012) Montessori
instruction: a model for inclusion in early childhood classrooms and beyond. Montessori Life. 24.1 (Spring 2012):
32-38.
McKenzie
and Zascavage analyze how the Montessori classroom is preprogramed for
inclusion. They go in-depth on how the philosophy and many aspects can meet the needs of children with a
variety of learning difficulties.
NCLD Editorial Team.
(n.d.) What is dyslexia? National Center for Learning Disabilities.
Retrieved
from http://www.ncld.org/types-learning-disabilities/dyslexia/what-is-dyslexia
The
National Center for Learning Disabilities offers a simple guide on what
dyslexia is, how it is identified, how it affects people, and how it can be
treated. It offers warning signs by age groups as well as practical steps for
parents and educators to take.
NIH News. (2011). NIH-funded
study finds dyslexia not tied to IQ. National Institutes of Health.
Retrieved from http://www.nih.gov/news/health/nov2011/nichd-03.htm
The
National Institutes of Health conducted study to see whether dyslexia and
lower IQs were connected. They found that dyslexia does not mean lower IQs
and that dyslexic children should receive support in reading.
Reid, G. (2011).
Dyslexia: A Complete Guide for Parents and Those Who Help Them. Whiley-
Blackwell.
Chichester, UK
Reid's
book not only discusses the various aspects of dyslexia but also shares real
accounts form parents and educators. He provides many helpful strategies for
parents, places an important emphasis on children's emotion development,
offers many important resources. Reid also discusses what happens after
school, providing many helpful resources of dyslexics to be successful
throughout their lives.
Richardson, O. S. (2004). Resarch
validates montessori approach to teaching language. Montessori Life. Summer 2004. 16, 3, 46
This
article discusses how Montessori education is an ideal method for teaching
language to children based on research from the National Institutes of
Health. It illustrates how the Montessori Method also supports children with
learning disabilities, particularly dyslexia. The author also offers games
and activities to support children’s language development.
Sandman-Hurley, K. (2013). What is dyslexia? [video file]. TED-ED.
Retrived from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zafiGBrFkRM&noredirect=1
This video offers a quick inside look
on what dyslexia is. It offers an overview of how a dyslexic brain functions
and how this affects children's learning.
Shaywitz, S. (2003). Overcoming Dyslexia. New York: Vintage
Random House Inc.
This book give great detail and
history on what dyslexia is and how parents, teachers, and students can
overcome it. The author explains how dyslexia works and the importance of
diagnosis and what can be done from there. It offers practical steps to
incorporate both at home and at school to support students with dyslexia.
Skotheim, M. K.
(2009). Honoring the child with dyslexia in a montessori classroom. Montessori
Life, 21.1 (2009): 36-40.
Skotheim
offers a simple and comprehensive overview of dyslexia and how it affects
children with this learning disability. She connects recent research with how
children learn within the Montessori classroom and illustrates how the two
combine.
Standing, E. M. (1998). Maria
Montessori: Her Life and Work. New York: Penguin Group.
E.M. Standing discusses the depth of
the Montessori philosophy through personal accounts of Montessori's life and
examples of her method in action.
Washburn,
E.K (2009). Teacher knowledge
of basic language concepts and dyslexia: are teachers prepared to teach
struggling readers? (Doctoral Dissertation). Retrieved from ProQuest
Dissertations and Theses. (UMI No. 3399916)
Washburn's
dissertation focuses on the lack of teachers' preparation to support dyslexic
children. He conducted three studies to gather data on teachers'
preparedness. He then worked on possible solution to prepare teachers to be
successful in helping dyslexic children through in-service programs and continuing
education.
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Delving Deeper: Simplicity in the Montessori Environment
As the education system works to better itself through
new standards and learning objectives there is more and more pressure to cover
a large amount of information each year. Montessori teachers find different
ways to add to the curriculum and materials. In the article, Delving Deeper: Simplicity in the Montessori
Environment, Michelle Irinyi discusses how she witnessed firsthand the
overwhelming feel of crowded shelves in a coworker’s classroom and the negative
impact it had on children.
Irinyi’s coworker: “…believed it was her responsibility
to present every lesson and material possible each year” (2013). The
overabundance of supplemental lessons overshadowed the Montessori materials.
The children, while busy, did not concentrate. Irinyi compares this bounty of
materials to an overwhelming meal (2013). While everything looks good and is appealing,
the amount becomes overwhelming and nothing is fully enjoyed.
Montessori
created a uniquely beautiful and simple environment for students where each
material was there for a reason. Maria Montessori began by offering the
children dolls and toys to play with but soon observed that the children were
not drawn to them in the way they were captivated by the didactic materials (1998).
Irinyi’s article reminds us of this amazing fact. The original materials are
enough.
In
Irinyi’s opinion, teaching lessons in the Montessori classroom is not about
going through a checklist but must be based on each individual child. The goal
of Montessori education is to open up the whole universe to children: “…freeing
them to explore, ask questions, conduct research, and create their own
understanding” (2013). We must believe in the method and remember the depth of
knowledge found in beauty and simplicity.
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
ForLittleOnes- Readers Reviewed!
A great interview and review at http://ecoleeko.blogspot.com/2013/10/montessori-reading-for-little-ones.html
Thanks to Ecoleko!
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Thanks to Ecoleko!
Check out her store- http://www.ecoleeko.com/
Thursday, October 10, 2013
Montessori and Catholicism
"It
is possible to see a clear analogy between the mission of the Shepherd
of the Church and that of the prudent and generous Montessori directress
- who with tenderness and love knows how to discover and bring to light
the most hidden virtues and capacities of the child."
-Pope John XXIII
Check out my wonderful friend's blog on her Montessori adventures!
http://ireneob55.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/what-is-the-montessori-method/
-Pope John XXIII
Check out my wonderful friend's blog on her Montessori adventures!
http://ireneob55.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/what-is-the-montessori-method/
Stay at Home Moms
An interesting article about stay at home moms.
As a educator I find this to be an fascinating and beautiful perspective. I do not have children of my own so I can't speak from personal experience but I can speak about what I have seen through others. One of my sisters home-schools her 5 kids and rarely have I seen such well balanced, well mannered, and wonderful children. (Note- I might be a little biased as I am their aunt.)
Matt Walsh brings out many great points about the importance of motherhood while not saying that it is wrong for mothers to work. Some highlights:
- Motherhood used to be deified and now it is seen as a "disease"
- Mom- the most important role, you cannot be "replaced" the way you can be on a job
- For moms to spend as little time as possible with their kids should not be considered an "ideal"
But really, the article is much better written than my 2 cents and worth a read:
http://themattwalshblog.com/2013/10/09/youre-a-stay-at-home-mom-what-do-you-do-all-day/
As a educator I find this to be an fascinating and beautiful perspective. I do not have children of my own so I can't speak from personal experience but I can speak about what I have seen through others. One of my sisters home-schools her 5 kids and rarely have I seen such well balanced, well mannered, and wonderful children. (Note- I might be a little biased as I am their aunt.)
Matt Walsh brings out many great points about the importance of motherhood while not saying that it is wrong for mothers to work. Some highlights:
- Motherhood used to be deified and now it is seen as a "disease"
- Mom- the most important role, you cannot be "replaced" the way you can be on a job
- For moms to spend as little time as possible with their kids should not be considered an "ideal"
But really, the article is much better written than my 2 cents and worth a read:
http://themattwalshblog.com/2013/10/09/youre-a-stay-at-home-mom-what-do-you-do-all-day/
Sunday, September 29, 2013
Parents as first educators
Something has been on my mind lately. Are parents relying to much on others to raise their children for them?
I feel that throughout my readings for my Masters in Montessori education, the government is continually trying to decide what is best and that people are looking to schools (and the government) to raise their children for them. We seem to be so far away from parents wanting and being able to raise their own children. Too often it seems to me like people have children as a commodity (for status, social norms, because they have reached a certain age) and then look to others to raise them! While yes, it does take a village to raise a child, shouldn't the parents be the first and primary educators instead of the school, the nanny, or the government?
As the Cathecism of the Catholic Church beautifully says:
I just heard of a family where the parents are in their fifties and just adopted a child from China. This is awesome but just a few month after adopting him he is in school from 8-4 while his parents work from home. He was in an orphanage for the first 3 years of his life and is most likely experiencing a huge culture shock with little support. I find this to be so sad! Shouldn't he be spending most of his time with his new family getting to know this new and foreign culture?
What do you think? Do parents rely to much on school to raise their children for them? How can we help remedy this?
I feel that throughout my readings for my Masters in Montessori education, the government is continually trying to decide what is best and that people are looking to schools (and the government) to raise their children for them. We seem to be so far away from parents wanting and being able to raise their own children. Too often it seems to me like people have children as a commodity (for status, social norms, because they have reached a certain age) and then look to others to raise them! While yes, it does take a village to raise a child, shouldn't the parents be the first and primary educators instead of the school, the nanny, or the government?
As the Cathecism of the Catholic Church beautifully says:
2223 Parents have the first
responsibility for the education of their children. They bear witness to this
responsibility first by creating a home where tenderness, forgiveness,
respect, fidelity, and disinterested service are the rule. The home is well suited
for education in the virtues. This requires an apprenticeship in
self–denial, sound judgment, and self–mastery—the preconditions of all true
freedom. Parents should teach their children to subordinate the “material and
instinctual dimensions to interior and spiritual ones.”31 Parents
have a grave responsibility to give good example to their children. By knowing
how to acknowledge their own failings to their children, parents will be better
able to guide and correct them: (1804)
http://www.usccb.org/beliefs-and-teachings/what-we-believe/catechism/catechism-of-the-catholic-church/
I just heard of a family where the parents are in their fifties and just adopted a child from China. This is awesome but just a few month after adopting him he is in school from 8-4 while his parents work from home. He was in an orphanage for the first 3 years of his life and is most likely experiencing a huge culture shock with little support. I find this to be so sad! Shouldn't he be spending most of his time with his new family getting to know this new and foreign culture?
What do you think? Do parents rely to much on school to raise their children for them? How can we help remedy this?
Saturday, September 21, 2013
Lakshmi A. Kripalani- The child’s choice is the clue
Lakshmi A. Kripalani is one of Montessori's own students and strong advocate for the method. She is often referred to as a Montessori sage. She was at the feet of Maria Montessori, the head of a school, a teacher trainer, an author, and has given many lectures on Montessori education.
In the article "The child's choice is the clue" she reminds us of the true meaning of the sequence of Montessori materials. She tells us clearly that: "The sequence is not for the children to follow mechanically. The sequence is for the teachers"(2010). This places an even greater emphasis on the importance of observing each child. Through observations we can see the specific needs of an individual child and thus the correct sequence for this individual.
Yet so many materials rely on each other. Should a child be able to do the number rods before having been introduced to the red rods? Of course this would depend on the teachers observations but does it not also illustrate a certain need for following the sequence of materials?
What are your thoughts? Do we too often rely on the "correct" sequence and place unnecessary barriers on a child's independence or is the sequence not just for the teacher as Lakshmi reminds us?
Kripalani, L. A. (2010) The child’s choice is the clue, Montessori Central, retrieved on September 21st 2013 from http://jola-montessori.com/article/lakshmi-a-kripalani-8/
In the article "The child's choice is the clue" she reminds us of the true meaning of the sequence of Montessori materials. She tells us clearly that: "The sequence is not for the children to follow mechanically. The sequence is for the teachers"(2010). This places an even greater emphasis on the importance of observing each child. Through observations we can see the specific needs of an individual child and thus the correct sequence for this individual.
Yet so many materials rely on each other. Should a child be able to do the number rods before having been introduced to the red rods? Of course this would depend on the teachers observations but does it not also illustrate a certain need for following the sequence of materials?
What are your thoughts? Do we too often rely on the "correct" sequence and place unnecessary barriers on a child's independence or is the sequence not just for the teacher as Lakshmi reminds us?
Kripalani, L. A. (2010) The child’s choice is the clue, Montessori Central, retrieved on September 21st 2013 from http://jola-montessori.com/article/lakshmi-a-kripalani-8/
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